During this season of the year, all we seem to do is run, run, run. We pause only to grab some sleep and catch our breaths. I’m not a person who loves running. In fact, I seldom move faster than a sedate stroll.
We spent a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday with our son and his new wife, and two step-sons, our daughter, and then on Saturday, our other daughter, and her family joined us. We ate and ate and played games and enjoyed the warm indoors. Between running the dishwasher and showers, I think we must have used twice the normal amount of water as for any other similar time period. What a clean bunch we were!
This is the first week of Advent, and with it, there are the beginnings of many seasonal obligations — and pleasures. Two potlucks today alone. You betcha, I’m utilizing my crock pot! Tomorrow a meal out and a trip to see Christmas lights with a group from church. Thursday a much-needed trip to my beautician. My hair has reached that “nanner, nanner, nanner, you-can’t-control-me-any-more” stage. Saturday is our clergy family Christmas party. This will probably be the quietest week.
Oh, but come December 26th, and we’re off to the northeastern part of the state and our retirement home. This trip will be wild because we will be traveling in a pickup truck (NOT one of those trucks with a back seat), and we’ll have our animal carrier in the seat between Jim and me. Our two cats will be vying for space, and the older cat, Girlie, will probably win. She is huge. Poor little Max doesn’t have a chance. I’m sure we’ll be treated to a chorus of cat songs during that four hour drive.
Ah, but when we arrive, friends and parties await. On the agenda will be a trip to our favorite Mexican restaurant, a New Year’s Eve party at a friend’s, and perhaps a day trip to the gambling boat on the Mississippi River (only about 40 minutes from Rector). We always enjoy getting away from our regular routine, and the house at Rector is just right for that. I grew up in that house, with my grandmother and step-grandfather. We call it our cottage because of its size: two tiny bedrooms, one bathroom, a living room, kitchen, and added on laundry room. Oh, and did I mention the little mysteries that abound in that house? Like doors that open and close on their own. Lights that turn on by themselves. A knocking that we can never locate. Plugged in appliances and devices (the television) that unplug themselves. (Not turn themselves off and on, but UNplug from the wall.) Oh, yes, there are mysteries there in that little cottage on Valley Street where two of my step-grandfathers passed on to the world beyond this one. At least we think they did. We’ll see how the new cat reacts to everything. A nice week away will be a treat.
Time to get busy.
Later, y’all.
5 responses so far ↓
Annie // December 3, 2007 at 8:29 pm
Hi Carol Anne,
I’m trying to put together the November 2nd message with this one. In this one you sound busy and social and active and full-of-people but in that one you sounded quiet and hemetic and reflective.
I’m going to think of you as a many faceted person, one who can bound into the social lane at will but who can also live sedately alone as well.
Annie // December 3, 2007 at 8:31 pm
Oh, and P.S., I love the idea of a house that does all those kinds of things (sounds, unplugging) on its own like your house in Rector. I once had an old house like that in Fayetteville.
Carol Anne // December 3, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Annie, I think I am social until I am exhausted, and then that other facet of me comes out. I have no trouble at all being alone with myself and spending days without going out. In fact, that is the life I prefer: the quiet, slow-paced life that is quiet enough to really think and contemplate things deeply. This social side is mostly forced, though once I’m involved, I do enjoy it. I grumble, and whine, but in the end, I go and do the things I must, and usually end up enjoying.
Yes, I love that house. It seemed much larger when I was a child, though. I will always be grateful that my grandmother loved me enough to know how much it meant to me. She made sure it was mine after she died.
Annie // December 5, 2007 at 9:51 am
It’s probably giving your grandmother pleasure even now, knowing you love her house and keep it in your good care.
Annie // December 22, 2007 at 4:39 am
Thank you for the idea about lounging socks for men. That’s perfect for the wintertime.
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